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Big (Ol’ Belly) News

December 1, 2010 by Amy, Using Our Words 50 Comments

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If you know me, you might have been wondering why my wardrobe was getting baggier, my wine glass was staying fuller and my eyes were getting heavier mid-way through a fascinating conversation about one of my favorite celebs. Well, the cat’s out of the bag. Or should I say, the bun is in the oven. That’s right, I’m pregnant. (Here’s where the real questions begin, right?) Yes, it’s #3. No, it wasn’t an accident. Yes, it might be a boy. And the list goes on.

A week or so before the plus showed up on that life-changing stick, I started thinking this might be what was going on, so I’ve been jotting down thoughts over the last 14 weeks that I thought would be fun to share once the news was out. Here goes…

Week 3
• After an hour of chasing the boys around at Safari Run, I’m exhausted—totally and completely exhausted. Am I out of shape? Most definitely. Am I pregnant? Maybe…
• Sunday night and still feeling sick from an indulgent neighborhood party on Saturday. Too much free wine courtesy of my neighborly bartenders? Most definitely. Sunday night blues? Yep. Pregnant? No way. (At least I hope not given the first answer.)

Week 4
• My first nap in ages. And I never saw it coming…
• Definitely pregnant. I not only wanted to eat Grandpa Cookies for breakfast (the sweetest, most decadent treats ever), I wanted to throw them up right afterward.
• Oh, and the magic stick had a plus sign. Wow. This is for real. Amazingly, overwhelmingly, heart burstingly real.

Week 5
• Note to the husbands out there. DO NOT ask your wife if she’s considered using the elliptical when she’s upset about her quick weight gain. DO leave a sweet note in her bag telling her how excited you are about the baby. Attaching her favorite candy bar is a big bonus (especially if you’ve made an elliptical reference that week).
• Big’s constant need to visit public restrooms is becoming less of an annoyance and more of a convenience.

Week 6
• Today my toothbrush became my enemy.
• My first big doctor’s appointment. Turns out it’s too early to see a heartbeat…not what you want to hear.

Week 7
• My first pregnancy I was so excited to take pictures of my belly progress each week. (Perhaps because there wasn’t any for a long time.) Now I’m thinking if I pulled out my 20-week photos, I could pass them off as me today.
• I’m hoping that wine is good for plants. The ones in my friend’s backyard have been well fed lately.

Week 8
• Best. News. Ever. There’s folic acid in Goldfish, so eating a bag a day is actually good for me.
• They say pregnancy makes you clumsy (as if I needed help in that department). I say flinging my decoy wine across the dinner table onto my in-laws is just a creative way to avoid drinking.
• I’m a total stereotype. Can’t stomach eating the sandwich I made, so I’m just eating the pickles off of it.
• All of a sudden I’m hearing heartbreaking stories about failed fertility attempts and miscarriages from my friends. It leaves me feeling sad and wondering how I got lucky enough to have 3. Yes, I feel very, very lucky.

Week 9
• Tonight when we all sat on the couch for a family cuddle, Big looked to the side and unknowingly said, “There’s room for 1 more!”
• Today at soccer, Big looked at the family getting in the car next to us and said, “It looks like they have a baby.” I replied, “Yeah, isn’t that fun?” Big, clever kid that he is, said, “No! Not when they get all the attention!” Hmm, looks like there may not be room for one more after all…

Week 10
• I don’t just look like I ate way too much Halloween candy (which I did), I look like I inhaled the bowl.
• Our parents and the kids are in on our big secret (which means it probably won’t be a secret for long). Little doesn’t get it. Big is excited—in a nervous, giggly way.
• When I got in the car to go to work this morning, Big said, “Mommy, you’re taking a baby to work with you today!”

Week 11
• I was so hungry at my non-baby doctor’s appointment (which was running late) that I almost drank the glucose drink I’m carrying for my blood test tomorrow morning. Seriously, seriously considered it. (Yep, I get to take it early since I’ve had gestational diabetes in the past.)
• When I went in for my blood tests today, the phlebotomist remembered me from last time I was pregnant. Said she recognized my smile, and immediately remembered my outrageously uncooperative veins. We almost embraced when she pulled 6 vials of blood in a single attempt.

Week 12
• They say you shouldn’t actually eat for 2 when you’re pregnant. I agree, so I’m eating for 4.
• I went in for a major ultrasound today and felt like I was on a sitcom. The tech—without asking if I wanted to know the sex (which I do, luckily)—started in on how she wouldn’t go buying any pink because it looks like this might be another boy. Then she went on and on, “Wouldn’t it have been great if it was a girl? Oh well, I guess you know how to handle boys. Hope you’re ready for one crazy, loud house. Well, at least it’s a cute baby. Look at how cute it is…” I tried to explain that I actually like my boys and knew that there was a good chance this one would be a boy too. She just shook her head like I was a fool. Then a jolly doctor came in shouting his excitement about how my numbers looked good. After the tech explained my “dire” situation, he looked and said he thought determining the sex at this point was inconclusive. She just shook her head like he was a fool.

Week 13
• When you tell people you’re pregnant for the first time, their faces light up. Sometimes you can even see a tear in their eye. The second time they’re just as excited and talk about the wonderful sibling dynamic. The third time people say things like, “Are you ok?” … “On purpose?” … “Wow. You’re brave.” … “So you could have 3 boys?” Convincing people that they can be excited for us is harder than you’d think. (Of course many people have been thrilled by the news, but I’m guessing they’re thinking what everyone else is saying…)

Week 14
• Just when I thought I’d escaped the true horrors of morning sickness, I’ve been quickly reminded of how I burst a blood vessel in my eye when I was pregnant with Big.
• Today when I was changing, Little ran in, smacked my belly and shouted, “Hi, baby!” Maybe he’s not so oblivious after all.

And that brings us to today. I’m about 14 weeks and very excited to be sharing our family’s news. No doubt the months ahead will lead to more funny stories and exciting moments. I look forward to sharing them with you!

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Comments

  1. erin says

    December 2, 2010 at 8:55 am

    I am super excited for you and you are right, my thoughts immediately went to Brave. But mostly, it is excitement for the continued journey and ensuing fun and chaos that is to come. Have a fantastic holiday with your 3 men + 1 TBD.

    Reply
    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 10:09 am

      Thanks so much, Erin. Same to you and your 3 men. Here’s to all kinds of chaos, laughter and love!

      Reply
  2. Melinda says

    December 2, 2010 at 10:10 am

    I am so happy for you! I will toot my own horn and let you know I did not think anything but how exciting. I read this at work and let out a squeal of delight!!! I’m just thinking how that house may have gotten a lot smaller. Oh well, there’s always room for love…Enjoy every moment. I look forward to living through you vicariously as this news comes the day after my “Big” turned 18!

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 2:34 pm

      Thanks so much for the good thoughts. I can’t believe your Big is 18! You’re welcome to borrow mine any time. 🙂

      Reply
  3. Rachel D says

    December 2, 2010 at 10:32 am

    Hi Amy!! Dave told me about the baby a couple of weeks back, but I didn’t want to contact you until you made it really public! I’m so excited for you!! With 8 weeks to go before our baby #3 gets here, I have encountered many of the same things that you have. #1: Yes, it was on purpose. But, if it wasn’t, why would you ask that? #2: I was so determined to gain only 25 pounds, but my body and appetite seems to have other plans for me. #3: The techs for baby boy #1 and baby boy #2 were correct about the sex at our 12-week ultrasound. I feel that we are able to give boy #1 a real gift by giving him a brother. Baby girl #1 has informed me that she wants to be the only girl (the princess) and she doesn’t like to wrestle as much as baby boy #1 would like. Congrats to you and your whole sweet family. I know that we say this all of the time, but it would be great to get our families together soon!!!

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 2:35 pm

      Wrestling is a favorite activity around here too! Hopefully we can come up and welcome your new little one soon. We’ll consider it a test run for introducing the boys to a baby. Very excited for you guys too and miss you all!

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  4. nicole says

    December 2, 2010 at 10:39 am

    hi amy, reading this made me teary eyed. i am so so excited for you guys! i know i’m not the only one that can’t wait to meet the newest addition, be it a boy or a girl! and, as for having to convince me – i have a different confession to make. when you told me the news, i couldn’t help being a tinge jealous! my baby is just exiting her babyhood and i would do anything to hold on to it! it goes so fast, and babies are pure joy, even during the hard parts. i can’t wait to see you and give you a big hug!

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 2:37 pm

      I’ll take your hug and give you my baby to borrow when you’re needing a fix. It does go too fast, but I love watching your girls grow up. Thanks for the good thoughts!

      Reply
  5. Tracy says

    December 2, 2010 at 10:42 am

    Amy – I smiled all the way through this post. Thanks for sharing your last few weeks! I am so happy for you and your family. AND I think 3 boys would be great! I always thought if we had another (not in the cards) that I would want another boy. Boys are fun and active (and crazy)and they LOVE their mommies! Sending you hugs across the miles.

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 2:40 pm

      Thanks so much, Tracy. You’re right, I love the way those little boys love their mama. It’s those sweet moments that make some of the crazy well worth it!

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  6. Tracy says

    December 2, 2010 at 11:20 am

    Amy – I am so very excited for you all … I was also smiling throughout your post. Seems like just yesterday that I was feeling all the same things about our Little! There is nothing better than 3! Congratulations!! And for the record, I have not noticed your belly 🙂

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 2:42 pm

      You guys are our inspiration, Tracy. We’ll be looking to you for all kinds of advice on room setup, etc. We’re going to be one cozy, loving family!

      Reply
  7. Sam says

    December 2, 2010 at 11:45 am

    Congratulations to your whole family! What fantastic news! Having two boys myself, I think three (for you) would be amazing! Though if it mysteriously is a girl (tech’s have certainly been wrong before) that would be special in its own way! I hope the second trimester sickness leaves soon and that this 3rd pregnancy is wonderful!

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 2:44 pm

      Thanks so much, Sam. With your boys just a bit ahead, I love hearing about your adventures and seeing what we have to look forward to!

      Reply
  8. Amy H (also) says

    December 2, 2010 at 12:16 pm

    OMG. you know me. i love pregnancy, pregnant people, and babies. but what i love best about this story (aside from the happy news) is when little ran in, smacked your belly and shouted “hi baby!”. ran. smack. shout. that sums up a boy or two (or three), huh? a hearty congratulations. and a sincere wish that you are snacking on goldfish and pickles as you read this. xoxoxo h.

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 2:48 pm

      And you know I love you. I did enjoy some pickle slices at lunch. But I substituted curly fries for the goldfish. A trade up, I believe. Thanks for making me smile!

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  9. Jodie says

    December 2, 2010 at 12:16 pm

    Congrats!!!
    Now does this mean Little will be graduated to Medium? Or will the new wee one become Tiny? 😉
    And I must admit… the thought of three boys makes my eyes get really big and starts me giggling and smiling in a semi insane way… But I say more power to you, lady!!! You obviously raise wonderful, amazing, intelligent, little people so keep havin’ ’em!!!

    Big kisses!
    xxoo

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 3:02 pm

      No wonder people think this must be a mistake. I didn’t plan well for blogging nicknames. I’ll have to get creative with this one. I had originally intended on using Munchie (what I’ve always called Big, short for munchkin) and Snugs (because Little is such a cuddly little headbutter), but I figured some of the stories were embarrassing enough that I’d keep their names tease-proof. I’ll keep you posted…

      Thanks for the love and good thoughts!

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  10. Anne says

    December 2, 2010 at 12:59 pm

    BIG HUGS! I’m sooooo excited for you. Having three kiddos will be great!

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 3:03 pm

      And for those days when it’s not, there will be Bean Trees. 🙂 Thanks so much!

      Reply
  11. Simona says

    December 2, 2010 at 1:01 pm

    Awww—congratulations!!!! That is so exciting!! Three is wonderful, boy or girl. Don’t you just love those comments though? Everyone acted like I should be devastated when I found out that Luke was a boy. Soooooo excited for you guys and look forward to hearing all the updates! XOXO

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 3:05 pm

      You make three look impossibly simple. No doubt, I’ll be turning to you for some of your tips. Thanks so much for the good thoughts!

      Reply
  12. Aimee says

    December 2, 2010 at 1:59 pm

    Didn’t read all the way through before I responded before to see that it may be 3 boys?!?! I’ve been told that mothers of three boys get a ticket straight to heaven 🙂 Three is great whether it’s a boy or girl!

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 3:05 pm

      If it’s 3 boys, I’ll be in great company. Both here and in heaven!

      Reply
  13. Christina says

    December 2, 2010 at 2:25 pm

    OMG!! Yay, congratulations!!! I have been wondering when this news was going to come. I didn’t doubt for a second that you would have a third child. You are amazing with all you do for Big and Little, and to actually have time at the end of the day to write about it!? Supermom for sure! 🙂 We are thrilled for you! I can’t wait to read all about this new adventure!

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 3:07 pm

      You’re too kind, Christina. I so appreciate it and love sharing our adventures from afar. Maybe one day soon we’ll actually get to catch up and laugh in person!

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  14. Lolly B says

    December 2, 2010 at 3:29 pm

    Wow! A new addition to the Foss/Sneed/Heinz family line. Big and Little are so adorable that they had to be good salesmen for a third. Can’t wait to see a new one added to the dialogue. Also excited to report that I will be a grandmom within the next few weeks when Davis and Julie’s baby Miriam arrives. Can’t wait. Much love to all of you. Lolly

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 8:44 pm

      Can’t wait to hear more about baby Miriam. Sending love to you all…enjoy!

      Reply
  15. cari says

    December 2, 2010 at 4:20 pm

    amy!!! congratulations, so super happy for you. my brother has 3 boys and i think it is absolutely wonderful. hope the morning sickness is gentle on you. xox

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 8:44 pm

      Thanks so much, my friend!

      Reply
  16. Heather says

    December 2, 2010 at 5:25 pm

    What wonderful news, Amy! A healthy baby – be it boy or girl – is all you can ask for! As a mom of 3 boys, I can tell you that it is pure joy & chaos! Be warned for the inevitable: open mouthed gasps when you walk in the market, the oh-so-sensitive “oh, I’m sorry you didn’t get a girl” and the “are you going to try for a girl?” (which is probably the most insane question one can ask!)…the list goes on and on 🙂 Can’t wait to “hear” about the next few months…rest up! xoxo, Heather

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 8:46 pm

      You crack me up! I know that you’ve heard it and seen it all. Can’t wait to compare stories. Love to you and your sweet bunch of boys!

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  17. Vanessa says

    December 2, 2010 at 5:56 pm

    Awwww… how exciting! Can I reserve the right to ask you if it was on purpose if you get up to Baby #6? 🙂 I actually met a woman the other day that was just weeks away from having her sixth.

    Hope you feel better and better as the weeks go by. You’ve logged enough time with morning sickness in my opinion.

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 8:47 pm

      I can answer you now. If I tell you I’m having #6, it’s most definitely NOT on purpose! Thanks for the good thoughts.

      Reply
  18. elizabeth says

    December 2, 2010 at 6:29 pm

    What a beautiful journey you just walked me through. Brought back lots of memories. SO SO happy for you. Makes me think…. 🙂

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 8:53 pm

      I’m happy to continue to encourage you… 😉

      Reply
  19. Linda says

    December 2, 2010 at 7:19 pm

    So happy for all of you and glad that it’s out in the open now. I can’t contain my excitement!! So, will this be a “PeeWee” since you already have Big and Little, or will you resort to Small, Medium and Large??!!

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    • Amy says

      December 2, 2010 at 8:55 pm

      Hmm, I’m definitely going to have to think about it. Small, medium and large might be confusing since Little is sure to outpace Big soon enough (was 97% in height the other day!). Luckily I have some time to think about it. (And take suggestions, of course!)

      Reply
  20. Monika says

    December 2, 2010 at 8:57 pm

    I love that you have written down these special moments — they are both funny and heartwarming. They also made me tear up, but I’m going to blame that on the extra hormones! 🙂

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    • Amy says

      December 4, 2010 at 11:04 pm

      Of course hearing that we’re due a week apart was a highlight of the last few weeks as well. So, so excited to be on this journey together!

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  21. Maren says

    December 2, 2010 at 9:54 pm

    YAY for your whole family! We are so happy for you!!!!!!!!!!! I thought the same thing that Jodie did — what will you call the little guy (or girl) — but whatever you do call him/her, he/she will certainly be so loved. Hope the rest of the pregnancy goes well and that you continue to share the fun little stories….those of us without little ones yet need to get as informed as possible! XOXOXOXO

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    • Amy says

      December 4, 2010 at 11:05 pm

      Too funny…I’ll do my best to keep you informed, but not intimidated. I know you get a lot of great hands on experience as an aunt, though. You guys will be pros by the time you’re ready. Thanks so much for the good thoughts!

      Reply
  22. Pam Callahan says

    December 2, 2010 at 9:59 pm

    what fun I had reading this!! thanks for sharing your wonderful news! sending hugs and much love to all of you. Pam

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    • Amy says

      December 4, 2010 at 11:05 pm

      Thanks so much. Love to your family too!

      Reply
  23. nancy says

    December 6, 2010 at 9:50 pm

    amy–i am SO excited for you!! i tried to get on the blog the day your wrote it but it kept timing out (obviously this is VERY big news and all your followers were clammering to congratulate you!) 😉

    i looooooooved reading this post (as i do all of your others) and could not be happier for you and your sweet, growing family. i hope the morning sickness is over soon (mine kept getting worse with each pregnancy-ugh!)

    what a blessed holiday season for you!
    xo

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  24. Amy says

    December 8, 2010 at 10:33 pm

    Thanks so much, Nancy! I’ve actually had my best case of morning sickness this time, so hopefully that will stick. Holiday love to you and your family too!

    Reply
  25. Amy Mueller says

    January 3, 2011 at 9:27 pm

    Congratulations!!! This is exciting news. 🙂

    Reply
    • Amy says

      January 3, 2011 at 10:19 pm

      Thanks so much, Amy!

      Reply

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